I don't know anyone that has one, other than Adam who purchased the truck you see in my videos.
You are right, here are a LOT of parts in there. It's easy to get them mixed up. Really, I would take the trans apart and inspect the gears, if it's good, ptu it back together. The idea of getting a second one to play with is a great one. That way, not only will you have a backup, but you can play with it without trashing the one you have.
And as far as I know, the only real thing you can do to the trans is a reverse delete. However, it's been a few years since I looked so they may have metal gears for the trans now.