Okay, just to keep you guys updated on what is going on. I have completely updated every ad on the forum. I don't think the code in the ads had any affect on what we are experiencing, but it's worth a shot.
As I posted above, I have taken this forum down to one theme. Love it or hate it, the forum is probably going to stay like this from now on. Running that many themes made a LOT of work for me and this way, I only have one to go through. With as busy as I'm getting, and as busy as the forum is, it's the logical thing to do.
I have completely removed the store from the forum as well. This is just testing. If I find that the store is the cause, one it will be astounding since the code was clean, but two, it will give me a place to look as to why. and you know me, I'm all about the why.
So please bear with us on this, we are working on it. I'm trolling every page of this forum trying to make it mess up again after each change. If it does, I keep looking. If I can go 24 hours with no issues, then I know it's resolved and I will change my cookie code so that it will update everyone's cookies with the new ones. We are getting closer to having this whooped!