Hi Edgardcafe, I've been looking in on your thread regularly and wanted to just put forward a few things for you to consider. The link below goes to a video from Lee posted here in 2013. Watch the video in thread #1 and see if it helps you with the tail/gyro problem.
Gyro & Tail servo Direction Set up
I also suffered with a tail problem but not so extreme as yours. Below is a picture of my tail setup for my Blade 450X using a protractor to measure the degrees for the tail. I took it quickly and the focus isn't great but the top blade points to the right. The reason for this is to counter the force of the rotating main rotor (clockwise rotation).
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When the heli is sitting ready to take off the tail rotor should have the equivalent of about 10 degrees of right stick set to start with. Mine now has 8 degrees and you adjust this during testing by altering the length of the tail push rod. This will only need about one turn of the link in or out provided that your servo arm is set up properly.
Another thing to look at is the throttle curve. Mine was set as recommended by a chap I had as my flying instructor (0-80-80-80-80-80-80). This was just too steep for the Blade to live with and the tail always snapped hard left when increasing throttle. I now use 0-25-45-50-50-50-50 for the initial hovering. Remember that you only need to set up first of all to hover tail in, not go flying all over the place.
During my first testing of a heli after build or rebuild, I use a very flat pitch curve 46-48-50-50-50-50-50, this means that the heli won't take off even if you pushed the stick to 100% when 0 degrees are set at 50% stick position. You can run up the heli to check out tail wag after you've checked and double checked everything on the bench. Don't try to fly it until you're sure you know how your transmitter is setup and your gyro settings are working according to the transmitter, not the gyro. You need to be able to easily change the gyro settings to fine tune it in the field, hence, doing it this way.
Finally, only use the gyro in "Normal" mode for the initial settings and hovering, you don't need the "Heading Hold" mode until you fly off somewhere. How do you know it's in "Normal"? When you move the rudder stick left or right, the tail rotor snaps back to the central position rather than staying out to the right or left when you release the stick (heli on the bench during testing until you're sure about what you're doing). When you know what the setting actually is, then you can use the same number for the "Heading Hold" mode. It should be the highest setting without any tail wag, this will depend upon the actual heli, but makers often suggest starting out around 60% when you're ready for the first test in the field. It shouldn't really be much different than this, maybe around 54-58%.
Hope this helps.